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Your Good Light

Ever wonder why certain people are attracted to you? I don't mean any physical attraction but they are just attracted to, maybe... your personality. Your attitude. Your way of thinking. Your strength. Your positivity. They are attracted to that "light" in you.

That light is Christ. 
"Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven." Matthew 5:16 [KJV]

How is your light looking? Is it shining bright as ever? Is it illuminating through your life, captivating others? Or is it slightly dim? Only bright when things are going your way and dark as ever when you become slumped under the foot of the world?
Jesus Christ did not come, die on the cross for our sins, for us to CHOOSE when to let "this little light of mine" SHINE. God never promised us gummy bears & rainbows in this life. God never promised us-EASY LIFE. Here is what His word did say:

"I have told you all this so that you may h…
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